The new year always brings new resolutions
and new goals with it and one of the most common goals for people is to improve
a few of their habits, some want a better routine while others think they need
to work on their physical health. Today, we are just gonna focus on who can you
mold your personality in just a few easy steps. If you too are someone who’s
looking for a new purpose in life you’re definitely on the right page! With no
more delay, let’s get started!
1.
Keeping a
journal:
It is one point
you should never neglect. It gives you a reason to be full of gratitude and it
also gives you a reason to thank God for all the blessings you have. Research
has also proven that keeping a journal to note down stuff and write about your
day can prove to be stress relieving and it can impact your social life
positively as well. In your daily journal you can write several things e.g.
what new skills do you wanna learn, what are you thankful for, and also one
good deed you do every day! Implement all this and see your life change.
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2.
Self-talk (but
make sure it’s positive)
Very often we
all get so indulged in the hectic life routines that we forget to think about
ourselves. However, you must take out time to remind yourself that you’re worth
it and you can do well in anything you want…such stances play an integral role
in mental growth and you’ll soon get to see a happier version of yourself.
Sometimes letting negativity get out of your mind is hard but the effort is
what takes you somewhere in life.
3.
Do and think
good for others:
Serving people
should not just be done by force but it should be practiced like a ritual in your
life. Little acts of kindness make the world a happy place to live. You’ll
always see a happier version of yourself when you do well to and for others.
Compliment someone’s dress, make your best friend a card, and write short notes
for your family….YES! All of these include little acts of kindness.
4.
Focus more on
your relations:
Everyone has a
few people in their life whom they love unconditionally be it your partner,
parents, or best friend so keep the ones you think affect your life positively
and keep a distance from the toxic ones. To improve relations the thing that
matters the most is spending time with them but make sure it’s quality time in
which you talk about life experiences and goals. In case you have bad past
experiences with them forgive and let go as we all need to understand that as
humans there’s a lot to forgive and forget! Another tip? Be expressive. It’ll
help you grow and make them understand, how you feel about various things.
5. Develop self-esteem, confidence, and positivity:
Each one of us has
a complete right to feel good about how we look, our habits, and our
personality. These 3 traits- Self-esteem, confidence, and positivity can do
wonders for you. If you’re not ready to adopt all three of them, pick one and
work on it. Celebrate the good things in life especially your accomplishments
and even if you fail remind yourself that you compete with yourself so you
don’t have to compare yourself with anyone else!
In the end, I
just want you to remind your inner self to ‘Be yourself’. Accept who and how
you are so others don’t end up changing you. Be pleasant and try staying in a
positive environment as it is said ‘You are what you eat, what you do and what
you think so don’t forget to love yourself every day!
This article is written by Adan Asif, one of the contributors to the School of Literature.
