In Eastern cultures, most people think that arranged marriages are more successful than love marriages; that's why arranged marriages are not only encouraged, they are needed. Whereas in western cultures, very few people enforce or even endorse arrange marriages. The idea of your spouse choosing your spouse can be offensive to many young adults. They often see the opportunity to see the rush of first love as a birthright on their way to adolescence. Problems arise when Eastern and Western cultures collide. The new generation of the 21st century is considering. The present generation thinks that they can understand more than their parents that what is the priority of their life and what is most wanted quality in their partner and what does not matter to them. The thinking of the Eastern youth has become like that of the Western generation nowadays, and they say that their parents are imposing their old and outdated ideas on them while we should keep pace with the times. But not all statuses fit. Each home has its environment, training, and thinking space that is not relatable in everyone's life story. Many people live a good life going after their parents, while many couples live a beautiful life beyond doing what they want. Some constant buttons are always on everyone's mind.
Here Are Some Common Problems Faced In a Home
At
the very start, parents who support arranged marriages feel; that they are more
experienced and equitable than their children. They will be competent to make
better, less impetuous options about a well-matched and often economically
accommodating mate than their child will. In many cultures, breaking the rules
to arrangements can lead to family separation and deportation. But arranged
marriages for children can lead to fear and resentment. Many young people crave
the opportunity to find their best mate, which makes; their hearts beat faster
and their palms sweat. They want to experience some beautiful and memorable
moments with this person before committing to spending the rest of their lives
with them. The younger generation thinks; that it is time to understand each
other while their parents have nothing but shame and obscenity. That's why so
many young people face so many restrictions.
But
do parents know better? Parents often arrange their children's marriages
because doing so will keep their child will alive without any hurdle in their
life. According to some research, in arranged marriages, couples have a longer
duration of love; than the partners who choose their partners. And arranged
marriages end in divorce almost 10-times less than irregular marriages. But for
young adults, who can't see the gain and passion that comes from falling in
love, these statistics are often merely scientific.
This article is written by Meher Faizan, one of the contributors at the School of Literature.
