We are all humans, extraordinarily the same yet so different from each other. Humanity is God's supreme creation. His exquisite artistry is very visible in every human in the form of diverse traits and features. One of the features of human beings which acts as a great indicator of one's personality is confidence.
Often many people find it hard to be confident. Confidence is not
something that a person is born within the fact it's an acquired trait that
anyone can learn.
Some people are very shy and some are extremely confident, the
difference between these people is the environment. Both these people grow up
in different environments and each person's environment decides its fate.
If you find yourself not confident enough due to various things
then it is high time you gotta lift yourself and acquire some life-saving tips
that would eventually build your confidence.
1.
Stop Comparing yourself with others
If you have this toxic trait in yourself and you want to be
confident then immediately quit doing comparisons with others.
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Comparison
is poison for authenticity, replace it with healthy competition
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Compare
yourself with no one but yourself
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Tell
yourself that only your ambitions, dreams, and success is important to you not
others
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Every
human has his own pace, do not compare keep growing
● Free yourself from this vicious trap doesn't allow you to grow and be more confident
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Add
Positivity in your mind
All humans talk to themselves, some do that in their minds and some
use their mouths but we all talk, the thing which makes a difference is how we
talk to ourselves.
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Examine
the way you talk to yourself, are you always degrading yourself and regretting
big and small mistakes?
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If
so then this is a big alarm, stop this damaging practice right now, be kind to
yourself
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Indulge
in some positive uplifting self-talk, be kind to yourself, this would change
your perspective and help you become more confident, successful, and happier
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We,
humans, get what we attract, so be empowering and generous, firstly to yourself
and everyone around you
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Body Positivity
Many people are unable to be confident because of their bodies, the
way they look controls their attitude towards life. If you are going to stick
to the societal standards of beauty then you'll never be enough even after you
use the best skincare and try fillers.
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So
what to do? Well, the trick is simple, accept and embrace your body. Own it. If
you won't then no one else would, and what you are in the eyes of other people
should never matter to you
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Eat
healthy, exercise, love, and accept your body, if you don't fit a certain
societal standard then don't be sad, be proud of your body
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Be
happy that you are not part of the crowd, and carry your confidence like a
crowd.
This article is produced by, Uswah E Fatima, one of the team members at the SOL Community.
